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About jamiebrame

Greetings, fellow earthlings. I'm the retired Program Director at Christmount, the national retreat, camp, and conference center of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), in Black Mountain, NC. From September 2019 through October, 2020, I served Timberlake Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Lynchburg, VA, as interim minister. After taking more than a year off, First Christian Church (DoC), Wilson, NC, offered me the position of Interim Minister, beginning May 10, 2022. Originally from Eden, NC, I graduated from John Motley Morehead High School, earned a BA in Religion and Philosophy at Atlantic Christian College (now Barton College), and eked out a Master of Divinity from the Divinity School at Duke University. I served, in various positions, churches (part time and full time) in North Carolina and Georgia, and have lived in Black Mountain, NC, since 1989. I married Renae in 1992 (she refers to these years as "looooooooooong" years. I've spent the past 50 years or so trying to practice Christian contemplative prayer with some touches of Zen meditation to help the journey along. Married to a wife who is much holier than I am, I am fortunate to learn from her daily about how to do this thing called spirituality. Being an ordained minister doesn't make me holy (but occasionally, as you'll read, a little sanctimonious, so forgive me in advance!); but I hope that I put my education to good use. I'd love to be considered a spiritual teacher, but I know myself too well to claim that. While I do a bit of teaching, I think the best teaching we do is when we remain silent (the old desert abba said something like, "if you won't learn from my silence, you won't learn from my talking"). But silence shouldn't turn into quietism, and we do have to speak out and act for justice and fairness and equality for all. I frequently ask myself the question, "Does it matter?" about the major - and minor - issues of the day. What I think matters: love for God, equality, fairness, loving our neighbor, feeding hungry people, housing homeless ones, clothing naked ones, and especially caring for children; basically, caring for those who have some trouble caring for themselves. AND our relationship with God. What doesn't matter: what you think of me. I'm not very Christ-like. You won't hear me talking about all the things I do for others, or all the things I do for God - I was taught that It's not about me, and using good works to get attention for myself isn't what Christian faith is about - look up "narcissism" on Google. I'm not sure Jesus thinks it matters much that I am like him or not, but I do. The old story from the rabbis is probably apropo: when I am hauled up before God at the end of time, God isn't going to ask me why I wasn't more like someone else: I will be asked why I wasn't more like me. The rabbis tell the story better. I'm still a work in progress, as Renae will attest to. Finally, I just hope that something you read here will make you think. Use what you can, ignore the rest. Go read some of the desert saints. Read the classics. Take care of people, never point to yourself, and don't follow me: I'm just hoping to be one more signpost to God. And as one friend reminded me the week before I left Christmount, "It matters." Oh, and my favorite color is probably blue, and I love cats, and I love my wife's music. I don't like beets.

The Divine Office

The first time I ever chanted a Divine Office (the worship service prayed by Catholic monks several times each day), I was 18 years old, a freshman in college, visiting a group of college students who did this twice a … Continue reading

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Church?

I grew up going to church every Sunday. Our family church day began with Sunday School, to which we were always late, followed by morning worship. The evening began with youth group, then snacks (eventually this evolved, by the time … Continue reading

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A Huge Pet Peeve

It’s probably more than a pet peeve. Actually, it’s fairly serious. And I’ve said this for more than 28 years in front of the high schoolers that come to camp here at Christmount. I’m a guitar player and occasional singer … Continue reading

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Billy Graham in a Different Light

Billy Graham died yesterday morning. Last night, the local news in Asheville had nothing but his life and the weather for the 30 minute time slot at 6:00 PM. Thinking about his legacy today has been common in many conversations. … Continue reading

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Favorite Quotes #1

I have a little black book. I’m not ashamed to admit it. I even purchased it while I was with Renae shopping. It’s one of those Moleskin lined blank books that fits in the back pocket of my jeans: a … Continue reading

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Fasting

Think Lent, think fasting. It doesn’t matter how many other things you do at Lent, “giving up” something is pretty much how folks think about this christian season. Do you fast? Fasting usually is about food, and not eating as … Continue reading

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Compassion

I wasn’t always steeped in Buddhist thought. It took me taking mysticism courses in college and being part of a contemplative Christian prayer group there to point me in that direction. Being a card-carrying member of the Thomas Merton Fan … Continue reading

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Silence

I almost put an exclamation point after the title. But no, let’s keep it calm. Stephen Stills, in “Daylight Again,” wrote these words, “When everyone’s talking, and nobody’s listening, how can we decide?” Many monasteries have the reminder, “Please Keep … Continue reading

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Christ and Jesus

I loved college and seminary, especially the Bible courses. I learned not to be a biblical literalist. I learned some cool things about words and “The Word.” I loved Greek (Hebrew, not so much), learned that the King James Bible … Continue reading

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Secrecy as a Spiritual Discipline

Recently, I heard someone say that they had been told that secrecy is a spiritual discipline. It’s interesting how you hear something like this and wonder what the point was. Secrecy is rarely a good thing, especially in relationships. As … Continue reading

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